A Night of Love

Last night's service for my Grandmother was completely beautiful.  There was such an outpouring of love and support from everyone who attended.  Her flowers were absolutely stunning (especially two two bouquets we bought from Teleflora.com).  She looked peaceful and ready to exit this existence, transcending into something that equals her amazing spirit and magnificent being.  Thanks to everyone that came out for the service.  There was a huge turn out (over 100 people).  Great company, great support, and I am told by attendees great food (lol).  Puerto Rican people know how to cater a wake service :).  We bought a lot of the food, but by the time it was winding down I saw so many other items brought that we definitely did not bring lol :)

I created a keepsake from the services.  It was a compilation of letters written by my Mom, my cousin Yasmin, and my cousin Ali.  I was told it was very beautiful, and everyone seemed to enjoy them.  I was also asked to say a few words.  I definitely did this, and it was great, but when my brother Carl got up and said a few words - everyone was completely in shock.  It wasn't because he was asked to speak - it was because of the impact it had on him.  Please understand, my brother is a very serious individual most of the time.  He wears a very stone faced demeanor.  The moment he got up the podium he cracked and broke down.  It was completely beautiful to see that happen because I can remember only one other time he became emotional like that - when Grandfather passed away.  We aren't the closest of brothers, but I will say that I was very proud of him tonight.  Seeing that side of him made me really appreciate him.  I love you Carl - great job last night!

My best friend Josh was incredible yesterday - truly incredible.  He's as close to a member of our family as anyone can get.  The only thing separating him is blood, and I have always said blood doesn't determine your true family.

Adam was completely amazing yesterday also - he created the most beautiful picture board centerpiece for my Grandmother's service - completely hand painted.  It was beautiful :-)  I love you Adam!

More family stuff going on today (Sunday) in preparation of more family arriving on Monday from out of town. I am preparing a pork roast tonight for my Mom, Dad, and Adam.  It should be great!  I was going to make it in the crock pot, but I think instead I'm going to roast it in the oven.  Either way, I'm sure it will be great!

Hugs to all!